This Ain't Your Father's Retirement
By Peter "Coach Pete" D'Arruda
"Earth
provides enough to satisfy every man's need, but not every man's greed." -
Mahatma Gandhi
I
was a "honeymoon baby." That is, I was a souvenir of my parent's honeymoon.
I was born exactly nine months to the day from when it started. My arrival was
a mixed blessing at best. My father, a full time student working on his
Master's degree and a Ph.D. in Physics, and my mother, also a college student,
needed an addition to the family like they needed a hole in the head.
To
say that I grew up in a family of modest means is an understatement. But we never
went hungry. One of my earliest memories is that of a large metal can on the
kitchen counter stenciled with the words, "peanut butter," in bold,
government-style letters. Sitting next to it was a plain box marked "cheese"
in the same stark lettering. I would learn later that it was something called "government
surplus," a precursor to food stamps. It was free, but you had to be poor
to qualify for it.
Wants versus needs
Things
got a little better as I grew older, but not much. There was little money in
the house. What there was went to pay for necessities like nourishment and
shelter. Those were needs. As I remember it, there was never a problem in our
home making a distinction between needs and wants. Needs, I came to conclude,
are absolute and gnawingly apparent. Wants are arbitrary and usually frivolous.
It
troubles me that today's society, especially in wealthy countries like the United
States, is defined by its craving for instancy. Baby boomers started the push
button era sometime in the 1950s and soon, consumers were hooked on instant
coffee, instant tea, frozen TV dinners and so many labor-saving devices that kitchens
couldn't contain them all. Now, we are addicts, and we have passed the habit on
to our kids. The line of distinction between wants and needs always seems to
blur when there is plenty, but usually comes back into sharp focus during hard
times.
According
to a survey conducted by the Pew Research Center's Social and Demographic Trends
project, Americans are rethinking what they can and cannot live without. It
used to be that most folks saw such things as microwave ovens, home air
conditioning and TVs as luxuries; now, more people see them as necessities. Do
you have a cell phone? Could you part with it? Half of those polled said they
viewed cell phones and personal computers as necessities. Food is a necessity.
You can't eat a computer. Would you go hungry to keep your cell phone? That is
the true test, I suppose.
Economic
recession has a way of teaching us priorities. Since the era of abundance in
the 1990s, the television, the most sacrosanct of all luxury items, is now
considered a necessity for only 52 percent of those surveyed -- down from 64
percent. The media bombards us daily with things that are attractive and
appealing. Advertising moguls are paid millions to find new ways of making us want
the things they dangle before us. Credit cards make them easy to purchase. It
is no wonder that some think there is a giant conspiracy out there, the purpose
of which is to prevent anyone from saving anything! I know my mother would see
it that way. "It's a game," she used to say. "And it goes like
this: You have money in your pocket, and everyone around you is trying to get
it out."
Those
words still come back to me every time I leave a Best Buy store with some new
gadget that I felt sure I could not live another day without. I get that little
tingle of conscience they call "buyer's remorse."
Debt versus savings
These
days, America is addicted to credit the way drug addicts are hooked on narcotics.
The actual number is hard to nail down, but one source recently stated that the
United States owes more than $2.5 trillion in consumer debt. Even if it's off a
billion or two, that's a lot! How much is a trillion?
·
Our
standard nine-digit calculator can't display it. It's a one followed by 12
zeros.
·
A
trillion one-dollar bills, laid end to end, would reach the sun.
·
A
trillion dollars amounts to $3,333 for each of America's 300 million people.
David
Schwartz, a children's book author, says in his book, "How Much Is a Million?,"
·
"One
million seconds comes out to be about 11½ days."
·
"A
billion seconds is 32 years."
·
"And
a trillion seconds is 32,000 years."
With
that in mind, here are a couple of staggering statistics. As of this writing,
the United States federal deficit stands at $1.7 trillion. The national debt
stands at over $15 trillion. The debt is incurred when the government spends
more than it takes in. It is the debt that creates the operating deficit that
resets annually. These deficits are paid for by the government selling interest-bearing
Treasury securities.
This
is where you gulp and swallow hard. If the federal government were ever to default
on its promise to pay periodic interest payments or to repay the debt at
maturity, the economy would spin into chaos and collapse. It is the interest on
the national debt that gives the shivers to those who track this and understand
what it means.
That's
why the question is often asked, "Will Medicare and Social Security be around
when I retire?" The answer is yes, if you retire before 2024. The answer
is maybe if you retire after that. According to the trustees who report on
those programs annually, Medicare's trust fund will run dry by 2024, and the
Social Security will dry up in 2033. We say maybe those programs will still be here
because steps will probably be taken to preserve Medicare and Social
Security.But it remains to be seen what form those measures will take, and how the
face of Medicare and Social Security will change as a result.
Sparse savings
According
to the Employee Benefit Research Institute, about 60
percent of American workers say their household savings and investments total
less than $25,000. According to the book, "The Narcissism
Epidemic," published in 2009, average credit card debt in the United
States exceeds $11,000 -- triple what it was in 1990. That's just credit card
debt, and doesn't include what we owe on our houses, boats, cars, etc.
How
much are Americans saving for retirement? Not nearly enough. The average American
worker spends 94 percent of disposable income. The EBRI's report breaks down by
age group the retirement savings of America as follows:
·
Under
35: $6,306
·
35
- 44: $22,460
·
45
- 54: $43,797
·
55
- 64: $69,127
·
65
- 75: $56,212
It's
all a matter of priorities. I do not recall ever going out to eat as a kid.
Even after our belts were a little looser and we no longer ate government
cheese, my father and mother were both too conscious of laying a foundation for
our family's future to waste money on something as frivolous as ordering from a
menu. To this day, regardless of my financial situation, my eyes still go to
the right side of the menu first, where the prices are listed. I can't help it.
It is a habit I learned from my frugal parents, who knew the value of a dime,
and even more so the value of a dollar. Any surplus
was to be used as a foundation for our future, not wasted.
Today,
when I see young people eating out in a fancy restaurant, I can't help but wonder
if they have taken care of the necessities of life first. If not, then they are
eating on borrowed money that will eventually have to be paid back by someone.
I don't mean to sound like the curmudgeon who resents seeing others experience joy.
It just makes me wonder if we are perhaps headed in the wrong direction as a people
-- a pampered society, not one of industry and thrift.
Could
it be that retracing our steps back to those taken by an earlier generation
might be the best way to move forward to the rich lives we all envision for
ourselves?
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Peter J. "Coach Pete" D'Arruda has 21 Years experience in the financial
arena. Author of 4 books. Co-author of 3 books. Investment Advisor. Registered
Financial Consultant (RFC). Certified Financial Educator (CFEd). Host of
nationally syndicated FINANCIAL SAFARI Radio & TV shows. Numerous guest
appearances on CNBC, BNN, & Fox Business Channels. Quoted in Wall Street
Journal, Smart Money, Kipplinger, AARP Magazine, and many others.